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    Idquest
    Dash  ·  
    Apr 13, 2020

    Pre-swinging concerns

    in Swinging Questions

    What were your main concerns prior to starting your swinging adventure?

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    Idquest
    Apr 15, 2021
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    Completely understand. Some things should be secret... it's now part of the fun for us having s double life.

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    1944kms
    Mar 28, 2021

    Hi I am new here , that’s what worries me too

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    Idquest
    Mar 31, 2021
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    Swinging is sort of like the last taboo. If we told our families we'd decided we were trans-gay-vegan they would just support us. Swinging is another thing!

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    1944kms
    Mar 31, 2021
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    Our family don’t understand, at all so have given up talking .

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    MH
    May 02, 2020
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    Worrying that they recognised you but at the same time encouraging that your privacy has been respected 👍👍

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    Idquest
    Aug 06, 2020
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    We just had the plumber say he recognized us from a club!

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    Idquest
    May 01, 2020
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    Since then we've had a few folks on fab say they recognized us but they have all done the right thing and kept their distance.

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    MH
    May 01, 2020
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    Ohhh that is a bit close and yes a bit creepy.........

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    Idquest
    May 01, 2020
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    We've had a message from a single male who recognized Courtney at her gym. Never told us who he was... sort of creepy

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    MH
    May 01, 2020
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    As far as I know I haven't been close, I don't play at home ever, I stick to hotel meets or very occasionally a club. I live in Northants and work near Letchworth often staying overnight locsl (ish) hotels so it makes it easier. I am not a serial meeter I prefer to get to know people for something more than quick one offs. How about you two?

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    Idquest
    May 01, 2020
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    What is the closest you've come to being outed

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    MH
    May 01, 2020
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    I was worried that any my staff might find out, still am to be honest lol

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    Idquest
    May 01, 2020
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    We definitely are staying incognito :)