IdquestJan 92 minAdvice - The deal with beardsThink for a minute about just how complex a job it is to find a couple who match your desires. You want something, your husband wants...
IdquestFeb 23, 20213 minAdvice - Beat the House Party Anxiety!The time will come in your swinging career when, out of the blue, you’ll get an invite to a house party. What’s a house party you ask? A...
IdquestDec 9, 20203 minAdvice – Those Sexy Black Stripes!We don’t show our faces to just anyone who claims to be a swinger. We find that the pressure is high to show faces early in an online...
IdquestDec 4, 20204 minAdvice – Single Guy? Get your message above the cut line!In our last advice post, in which I discussed how swinging women were like and unlike their vanilla counterparts, we covered how,...
IdquestDec 2, 20203 minAdvice – Single Guys and Sexy Hot Wives!It's a almost a myth. As a single guy you usually have one thing on your mind, how to get laid! You want it as soon as possible, as often...
IdquestNov 10, 20204 minAdvice – That First CoupleOur first time to soft swap and to full swap were with the same couple. I know that for me, entire experience was easier in that we felt...
IdquestOct 31, 20205 minAdvice – Spaghetti SexualCourtney here again… hope you guys don’t mind. There’s lots of talk about sexuality in the swinging community nowadays, especially in...
IdquestOct 26, 20205 minAdvice – Let’s talk about Dick!So, Alex has me writing this which is an embarrassing and weird experience. But, I’m infinitely more qualified than Alex to talk about...
IdquestSep 18, 20204 minAdvice – Know Thy Self!One of the things that seems to come up often when we chat with newbie swingers is the impact of being surprised at their own reactions....
IdquestSep 14, 20203 minAdvice – It’s a Sporting Event!In the swinging world you meet lots of folks and they each go about swinging differently. They each have different likes and dislikes,...
IdquestJul 3, 20203 minAdvice – Playing with the DynamicsWell, I guess we first need to define what we mean by swinging dynamics. For us, a swinging event is full of energy. Not that new age,...
IdquestMay 30, 20202 minAdvice – The Big InsertionThe first time a couple sees each other playing is memorable in both exciting and nerve-wracking ways. First off, on the good side,...
IdquestMay 25, 20203 minAdvice – Single Guys and the Swinging WebsiteAs a single guy cruising on swinging websites, you really have the cards stacked against you. Swinging sites are not dating sites. ...
IdquestMay 24, 20203 minAdvice – Let’s be Clear!So, you are chatting with a sexy couple or single and the question comes out, it always does, “what are you guys into?” Warning! This...
IdquestMay 23, 20203 minAdvice – Watching out for #1!We all get super involved in what we’re doing during a meet and can lose sight of #1! By #1, I mean your partner not yourself! If you...
IdquestMay 12, 20202 minAdvice – Playing With The Swinging FantasyYou have this fantasy about swinging. Maybe it’s about meeting other couples for blistering hot play or it might be about adding a single...
IdquestMay 9, 20203 minAdvice – I Want To Swing!So, you wake up one day and have the sudden urge to push the boundaries of your sexual experience. Or, you wake up one day and realized...
IdquestMay 2, 20203 minAdvice – Social Success = Location, Location, Location!So, you’ve found a nice couple online, you’ve chatted a bit via the site and now you want to take it to the next level. We in the...
IdquestMay 2, 20202 minAdvice – One Rule to Rule Them All!We’ve gone through multiple iterations of rules during our swinging journey and have found that there is one cardinal principal that, if...
IdquestMay 2, 20202 minAdvice - Swinging for Christians?Can swinging be compatible with your faith? What about that, thou shalt not commit adultery, commandment? What about all the Victorian...
IdquestMay 2, 20202 minAdvice – Breaking the Ice with Dice!We’ve found that with new couples, and for us when we were new, breaking the initial ice was difficult and sometimes awkward. There comes...