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1. Swinging Journey posts are sequential and numbered to help you follow our story chronologically.
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Advice - The deal with beards
Think for a minute about just how complex a job it is to find a couple who match your desires. You want something, your husband wants...
Idquest
Jan 9, 20232 min read
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2 comments
Advice - Beat the House Party Anxiety!
The time will come in your swinging career when, out of the blue, you’ll get an invite to a house party. What’s a house party you ask? A...
Idquest
Feb 23, 20213 min read
1,167 views
5 comments
Advice – Those Sexy Black Stripes!
We don’t show our faces to just anyone who claims to be a swinger. We find that the pressure is high to show faces early in an online...
Idquest
Dec 9, 20203 min read
648 views
3 comments
Advice – Single Guy? Get your message above the cut line!
In our last advice post, in which I discussed how swinging women were like and unlike their vanilla counterparts, we covered how,...
Idquest
Dec 4, 20204 min read
1,735 views
2 comments
Advice – Single Guys and Sexy Hot Wives!
It's a almost a myth. As a single guy you usually have one thing on your mind, how to get laid! You want it as soon as possible, as often...
Idquest
Dec 2, 20203 min read
685 views
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Advice – That First Couple
Our first time to soft swap and to full swap were with the same couple. I know that for me, entire experience was easier in that we felt...
Idquest
Nov 10, 20204 min read
930 views
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Advice – Spaghetti Sexual
Courtney here again… hope you guys don’t mind. There’s lots of talk about sexuality in the swinging community nowadays, especially in...
Idquest
Oct 31, 20205 min read
1,066 views
1 comment
Advice – Let’s talk about Dick!
So, Alex has me writing this which is an embarrassing and weird experience. But, I’m infinitely more qualified than Alex to talk about...
Idquest
Oct 26, 20205 min read
1,594 views
1 comment
Advice – Know Thy Self!
One of the things that seems to come up often when we chat with newbie swingers is the impact of being surprised at their own reactions....
Idquest
Sep 18, 20204 min read
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Advice – It’s a Sporting Event!
In the swinging world you meet lots of folks and they each go about swinging differently. They each have different likes and dislikes,...
Idquest
Sep 14, 20203 min read
114 views
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Advice – Playing with the Dynamics
Well, I guess we first need to define what we mean by swinging dynamics. For us, a swinging event is full of energy. Not that new age,...
Idquest
Jul 3, 20203 min read
264 views
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Advice – The Big Insertion
The first time a couple sees each other playing is memorable in both exciting and nerve-wracking ways. First off, on the good side,...
Idquest
May 30, 20202 min read
336 views
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Advice – Single Guys and the Swinging Website
As a single guy cruising on swinging websites, you really have the cards stacked against you. Swinging sites are not dating sites. ...
Idquest
May 25, 20203 min read
278 views
1 comment
Advice – Let’s be Clear!
So, you are chatting with a sexy couple or single and the question comes out, it always does, “what are you guys into?” Warning! This...
Idquest
May 24, 20203 min read
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Advice – Watching out for #1!
We all get super involved in what we’re doing during a meet and can lose sight of #1! By #1, I mean your partner not yourself! If you...
Idquest
May 23, 20203 min read
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Advice – Playing With The Swinging Fantasy
You have this fantasy about swinging. Maybe it’s about meeting other couples for blistering hot play or it might be about adding a single...
Idquest
May 12, 20202 min read
209 views
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Advice – I Want To Swing!
So, you wake up one day and have the sudden urge to push the boundaries of your sexual experience. Or, you wake up one day and realized...
Idquest
May 9, 20203 min read
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0 comments
Advice – Social Success = Location, Location, Location!
So, you’ve found a nice couple online, you’ve chatted a bit via the site and now you want to take it to the next level. We in the...
Idquest
May 2, 20203 min read
116 views
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Advice – One Rule to Rule Them All!
We’ve gone through multiple iterations of rules during our swinging journey and have found that there is one cardinal principal that, if...
Idquest
May 2, 20202 min read
105 views
1 comment
Advice - Swinging for Christians?
Can swinging be compatible with your faith? What about that, thou shalt not commit adultery, commandment? What about all the Victorian...
Idquest
May 2, 20202 min read
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Advice – Breaking the Ice with Dice!
We’ve found that with new couples, and for us when we were new, breaking the initial ice was difficult and sometimes awkward. There comes...
Idquest
May 2, 20202 min read
156 views
1 comment
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