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1. Swinging Journey posts are sequential and numbered to help you follow our story chronologically.

2. Advice and Tips posts are in no particular order.

3. If a chat pops up while you are reading it is from one of us and is not auto generated.

4. Please leave comments on posts that you enjoy!

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Idquest

Jan 9
2 min

Advice - The deal with beards

Think for a minute about just how complex a job it is to find a couple who match your desires. You want something, your husband wants...

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Idquest

Feb 23, 2021
3 min

Advice - Beat the House Party Anxiety!

The time will come in your swinging career when, out of the blue, you’ll get an invite to a house party. What’s a house party you ask? A...

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Idquest

Dec 9, 2020
3 min

Advice – Those Sexy Black Stripes!

We don’t show our faces to just anyone who claims to be a swinger. We find that the pressure is high to show faces early in an online...

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Advice – Single Guy? Get your message above the cut line!

Idquest

Dec 4, 2020
4 min

Advice – Single Guy? Get your message above the cut line!

In our last advice post, in which I discussed how swinging women were like and unlike their vanilla counterparts, we covered how,...

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Advice – Single Guys and Sexy Hot Wives!

Idquest

Dec 2, 2020
3 min

Advice – Single Guys and Sexy Hot Wives!

It's a almost a myth. As a single guy you usually have one thing on your mind, how to get laid! You want it as soon as possible, as often...

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Idquest

Nov 10, 2020
4 min

Advice – That First Couple

Our first time to soft swap and to full swap were with the same couple. I know that for me, entire experience was easier in that we felt...

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Idquest

Oct 31, 2020
5 min

Advice – Spaghetti Sexual

Courtney here again… hope you guys don’t mind. There’s lots of talk about sexuality in the swinging community nowadays, especially in...

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Idquest

Oct 26, 2020
5 min

Advice – Let’s talk about Dick!

So, Alex has me writing this which is an embarrassing and weird experience. But, I’m infinitely more qualified than Alex to talk about...

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Idquest

Sep 18, 2020
4 min

Advice – Know Thy Self!

One of the things that seems to come up often when we chat with newbie swingers is the impact of being surprised at their own reactions....

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Idquest

Sep 14, 2020
3 min

Advice – It’s a Sporting Event!

In the swinging world you meet lots of folks and they each go about swinging differently. They each have different likes and dislikes,...

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Idquest

Jul 3, 2020
3 min

Advice – Playing with the Dynamics

Well, I guess we first need to define what we mean by swinging dynamics. For us, a swinging event is full of energy. Not that new age,...

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Idquest

May 30, 2020
2 min

Advice – The Big Insertion

The first time a couple sees each other playing is memorable in both exciting and nerve-wracking ways. First off, on the good side,...

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Advice – Single Guys and the Swinging Website

Idquest

May 25, 2020
3 min

Advice – Single Guys and the Swinging Website

As a single guy cruising on swinging websites, you really have the cards stacked against you. Swinging sites are not dating sites. ...

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Idquest

May 24, 2020
3 min

Advice – Let’s be Clear!

So, you are chatting with a sexy couple or single and the question comes out, it always does, “what are you guys into?” Warning! This...

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Idquest

May 23, 2020
3 min

Advice – Watching out for #1!

We all get super involved in what we’re doing during a meet and can lose sight of #1! By #1, I mean your partner not yourself! If you...

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Advice – Playing With The Swinging Fantasy

Idquest

May 12, 2020
2 min

Advice – Playing With The Swinging Fantasy

You have this fantasy about swinging. Maybe it’s about meeting other couples for blistering hot play or it might be about adding a single...

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Idquest

May 9, 2020
3 min

Advice – I Want To Swing!

So, you wake up one day and have the sudden urge to push the boundaries of your sexual experience. Or, you wake up one day and realized...

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Advice – Social Success = Location, Location, Location!

Idquest

May 2, 2020
3 min

Advice – Social Success = Location, Location, Location!

So, you’ve found a nice couple online, you’ve chatted a bit via the site and now you want to take it to the next level. We in the...

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Idquest

May 2, 2020
2 min

Advice – One Rule to Rule Them All!

We’ve gone through multiple iterations of rules during our swinging journey and have found that there is one cardinal principal that, if...

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Idquest

May 2, 2020
2 min

Advice - Swinging for Christians?

Can swinging be compatible with your faith? What about that, thou shalt not commit adultery, commandment? What about all the Victorian...

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Idquest

May 2, 2020
2 min

Advice – Breaking the Ice with Dice!

We’ve found that with new couples, and for us when we were new, breaking the initial ice was difficult and sometimes awkward. There comes...

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Blog Info:

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1. Swinging Journey posts are sequential and numbered to help you follow our story chronologically.

​

2. Advice and Tips posts are in no particular order.

​

3. If a chat pops up while you are reading it is from one of us and is not auto generated.

​

4. Please leave comments on posts that you enjoy!

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